and that does take TIME... And patience, yes...
And, besides, patience is a virtue - one of seven according both to me as to others who came way before I did (but my seven include tolerance, goodness, benevolence, faithfulness, honesty, saintliness - as well as patience! They are just my "Luminous Virtues" - that's all.
I author 'em - don't preach 'em... yet!)
Just don't use the fact that there are seven virtues
or seven capital and/or deadly sins for that matter
to go out of your way to get seven brides as well!
Don't be a Larry King!